It’s been said that “women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So, each is inevitably disappointed.” I’ve been a marriage and family counselor and therapist for more than 40 years and one of the most common concerns I hear from men is this: “Why can’t I find the
I’ve been a therapist who specializes in helping men and the women who love them since 1969. In 1983 my first book, Inside Out: Becoming My Own Man, was published and my colleague, Sam Julty, said, “You’re the men’s maven.” I didn’t resonate with the term at the time, but it took on new meaning
I’ve been a marriage and family counselor and therapist for more than 40 years and one of the most common concerns I hear from women is this: “Where are all the good men? I’m a quality woman who has a lot of offer a partner, but I can’t seem to find my soul mate.” I
In my latest book, 12 Rules for Good Men, that will come out later this year, I explore what I’ve learned in the last fifty years doing men’s work. In it, I report on a new study that offers startling new evidence to support the reality that there are significant, brain-based differences between males and
I wrote an article, “The One Thing Men Want More Than Sex Is The One Thing Women Find It Hard to Give,” that has been read now by more than 3 million men and women. “How many times have we heard the phrase, ‘All men want is sex?’ I asked in the article. “When I
One of the things we must all deal with in our lives is the reality that loved ones will die. As I’ve gotten older that reality comes closer and closer to home. Both Carlin and I have gone through the pain of our parent’s death. We’ve also had close friends die and been with friends
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