I have been a marriage and family therapist since 1968 and have helped more than 25,000 couples find real, lasting love. I’ve also helped an equal number of singles to find that special someone and learn to have a marriage that lasts through time. I tell my clients that marriage is the graduate school of

I had an “aha” experience when I recognized that I talk very differently when I interact with my wife than when I’m talking to close male friends. When Carlin and I talk there’s a certain tension. Although we’ve learned to communicate better and better through the years, I feel like our interaction is more like

We often think that falling in love with the right person and staying in love through the years can’t be taught. We think it would be a waste of time and money. But you’d be wrong. Watch my final video in the series and learn how you can take a step toward achieving your own

We often resist and distrust the love we are getting from our partner even when it is truly given. We may give love in the early stages of our relationship, but as time goes on we take it for granted and get lazy. And when we’re under stress we often get caught in our anxieties,

Knowing that there are five stages of an Enlightened Marriage can provide hope for your relationship. Once you learn the tools for transformation, you can work your way through the difficult times. This is a time of great hope. Love truly can conquer all, but we have to learn to let love guide our lives.

I’ve found a love map that everyone can follow. In this brief video series, I tell you the specifics of why too many marriages fail, just when the couple could be enjoying their relationship the most – and what you can do to have the marriage you’ve always wanted. Please share your comments in the