My wife and I met in college. When we talked about getting married and having kids we decided we should have a child and then adopt a child. We were both socially conscious young people who reasoned that we would want to have our own, biologically, created child. But given how many people are on
In 1969 my son, Jemal, was born. When I held him for the first time, I made a vow that I would be a different kind of father than my father was able to be for me and I would help make the world a better place where men were fully healed and deeply connected
When I was four-years old I made a vow that nearly ruined my life. I was sitting in the corner of the kitchen while my mother talked with three women friends complain about their husbands. “My husband just can’t seem to make a living as a writer,” my mother told her friends, “but he won’t
It’s said that we teach what we want to learn and I’ve been teaching and learning about men’s anger and how it impacts our relationships for many years now. 2018 marks 50 years that I’ve been in the business of helping men (My wife thinks I should say, 40 plus years, because 50 years might
We all keep secrets. It’s part of what makes us human. But there are a number of sexual secrets men keep that they may not even be aware they are keeping. Both men and women can benefit from knowing about, and understanding, these secrets. One of the benefits of being a man for 75 years,
In my last post I wrote about “Christine, Brett, and Me: One Man’s Reaction To The Ford-Kavanaugh Hearings.” I got a lot of reaction from both men and women. Some people made a single comment in support or opposition. Some people continued to post, generally in angry opposition to what I had written. It was
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