I have been a marriage and family therapist for more than fifty years and have written seventeen books including best-sellers like Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places and The Enlightened Marriage. I have helped thousands of individuals and couples find the love of their lives and have the relationship they’ve always wanted.

The REAL Vitacco family (Summer 1985):Frank (rear), Nicky, Vinnie, and Frankie                 Being a father has transformed my life since the moment I held my newborn son, Jemal, shortly after his birth on November 21, 1969. Amid tears of joy and relief that both my wife and baby came through the birth process alive and

               In my recent article, “The Evolution of Manhood and the Emergence of Compassionate Warriors,” I introduced you to the work of Dr. Sarah Hrdy, an anthropologist and primatologist and one of the world’s leading experts on the evolutionary basis of female behavior in both nonhuman and human primates. Dr. Hrdy has recently turned her attention