When I was four-years old I made a vow that nearly ruined my life. I was sitting in the corner of the kitchen while my mother talked with three women friends complain about their husbands. “My husband just can’t seem to make a living as a writer,” my mother told her friends, “but he won’t
It’s said that we teach what we want to learn and I’ve been teaching and learning about men’s anger and how it impacts our relationships for many years now. 2018 marks 50 years that I’ve been in the business of helping men (My wife thinks I should say, 40 plus years, because 50 years might
Manhood today is maligned and misunderstood. Some believe maleness itself is inherently destructive and should be eliminated. In his book, The End of Manhood, John Stoltenberg says that the notion of manhood “is a sham, a trap, and those who would redeem it are kidding themselves, for manhood is a mask, incompatible with truly human
I’ve been a psychotherapist for fifty years now and I’ve seen a lot of angry men and counseled thousands of women who live with angry men. I’ve also helped many more relationships recover when they’ve been on the brink of ending. I’ve found that there is one problem that causes more damage than any other,
We all keep secrets. It’s part of what makes us human. But there are a number of sexual secrets men keep that they may not even be aware they are keeping. Both men and women can benefit from knowing about, and understanding, these secrets. One of the benefits of being a man for 75 years,
After a lifetime of study, anthropologist Richard Lee concluded in Man the Hunter, “To date, the hunting way of life has been the most successful and persistent adaptation man has ever achieved.” Our hunter-gatherer heritage goes back at least 1.8 million years to our Homo Erectus ancestors. We may live in the 21st century, but
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